Intimate Relationship Dynamics 5


IRDs are patterns of habitual interaction that make partners react automatically, in set ways.

The same argument over and over…

Cycles of resentment, hostility, and despair.

Once an IRD gets activated, the content doesn’t matter…

Whether serious or trivial, partners slip into habitual reactions.

Instead of working as a team to solve the problem…

They see each other as the problem.

They’re opponents

Eventually enemies.


You’ll learn how to prevent IRDs.

And how to deactivate them when you slip.


Course Content

It Feels as If You’re in a Bad Play

The Demand-Withdraw Dynamic

The Pursuer-Distancer Dynamic

The Fear-Shame Dynamic

The Endless Treadmill of IRDs

The Engine of IRDs

Core Value

The Power Love Formula

The Antidote to IRDs

Deactivating IRDs

Relationship Repair

Quizzes and exercises


If chronic resentment, anger, or emotional abuse is part of your relationship, do the  Boot Camp, before this course,

You’ll be returned to the download page immediately after purchase.


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